Aug 31, 2008

Body Language Basics For Seducing and Attracting Women

Body Language Basics For Seducing and Attracting Women. Body language is VERY important. Why is that? Well according to studies carried out over 50% of your communication comes from your body language – what you DON’T say and less then 8% of your communication comes from what you DO say.


It is MORE important to pay careful attention to HOW you say things, and HOW you stand and HOW you act than it is to WHAT you say (at least initially).


You see, you could have the BEST game in the world and be able to really get any woman to like you loads, for example online, but if you used those same successful techniques in the real world and lacked obvious confidence, lacked eye contact etc – You would simply CRASH and BURN.


Honestly, body language is SOOOO important in attracting women. Later in the course we’ll go into how you can use the female’s body language to READ her mind and know what she’s thinking. This article is about YOUR body language.


Ok… So, I’ll cover the basics as the advanced stuff is beyond the scope of this article (if you want more advanced detail concerning body language you can check out my site here: Body Language Basics For Seducing and Attracting Women


Body language basics:

1. Smile
You have to make the female feel at ease and comfortable that you are a friendly and fun guy and you are not a psycho as quick as possible. Especially when talking to her for the first time. You also need to let her know that you are confident and comfortable around women. A big and genuine smile is the best way to do this. It works. In fact, if you ever get an Ice Queen that you can tell is about to give you the “dead eye”, give her a big smile. Practice smiling at random people. You’ll be surprised by how many people smile back and at how many doors open to you. Smiling WORKS. Just don’t make it a cheesy, fake smile ;)


2. Eye contact

As you know there’s nothing worse than staring at a woman’s chest – or even looking. It makes you just like all the other guys who drool over her. If anything you should use all your skill to NOT look at her chest – she’ll wonder why her womanly powers don’t work with you and she’ll seek your attention and subconsciously TRY to get you to look!


When talking to her, try to maintain eye contact. Not too much because it can be intimidating, but if you aim to have eye contact with her around 70% of the time you are talking, this should be comfortable for most women. Don’t stare like a crazy man, just be natural but if you naturally look away or are slightly shy when it comes to eye contact, make a conscious effort to have a little more. Eye contact can make serious connections within people. They say the eyes are a window to the soul and I think there may be some truth to that. There are even speed dating type events being run that involve just staring into each others eyes – and from what I hear, they are pretty successful.


Maintain eye contact. Not too much, about 70% of conversation time. Be natural.


3. Upright posture

Guys can get away with a bit of a hunch, but women really do prefer men with straight, upright postures. Look at all the big film actors like Pitt, Cruise etc. They all have good posture. It says to a woman you are confident, healthy, and strong (at least in mind). It’s just generally more attractive and says lots about who you are. Plus it’s good for your back and will help strengthen your back muscles making it easier to maintain.
Get into the HABIT of having an upright posture.


4. Gesticulate with open palms

You will not hear this tip anywhere else (or if you do, it was almost certainly copied from this course).
I’ve gone into in depth studies of body language and this one is a good one to use in MANY circumstances – I’ve adapted it here after solid testing to picking up women – however, some people suggest that when combined with a few other verbal and non-verbal techniques it can even give you a 50/50 chance of getting out of speeding fines!


Anyway, basically, when you are talking to a woman and trying to make a point (that puts you in a positive light) or defend yourself (for example, a girl suggests you might be a player) you talk and using your hands you have open palms facing upwards. Keep your arms in front of your body with your palms facing the sky and smile as you talk.


It works VERY well on a subconscious level to suggest you are being honest and telling the truth. And if you want a woman to begin to trust you, making her think you are being straight with her, is important.
This open palm gesticulation MUST be combined with a smile to work effectively. Those are the Body Language Basics For Seducing and Attracting Women.

Aug 8, 2008

GuyGetsGirl Review: A Unique and New Approach to Attracting and Seducing Women for Men Written By a Woman

By now you’ve probably seen hundreds of guys all over the net promoting pickup and seduction guides, DVD’s and courses. And if you’re like me, you’ve probably even tried a few (in fact, I’ve probably spent a few thousand dollars on attraction and seduction education – including the seminars, books and stuff). Some of these ‘gurus’ peddling their wares know what they are talking about, but most don’t and are just in this industry for a quick buck.

In the best part of 10 years and after using dozens of guru’s material I didn’t come across ANYTHING written by a woman for men - until now.

I’ve finally found a collection of eBooks written by a woman – the author’s name is Tiffany Taylor. I bought access to Tiffany’s GuyGetsGirl site and instantly downloaded her 3 chunky eBooks which take you by the hand from beginner’s essentials like the importance of smiling, self-confidence up to the advanced heavily psychological stuff. There’s something in here for everybody whatever your level and lots of really powerful techniques I’d never heard of before.

I remember thinking to myself, “women don’t really know what women want, they just know what they THINK they want” but with this one I was wrong. She goes deep into the female psyche and really does expose a few “short cuts” and easy to press attraction buttons that are present in all women. And boy do they work.

I’d say this is probably the most unique and fresh approach to attraction and seduction I’ve seen in a very long time and it is well worth checking out if you have the money. If not and you want to increase your success with beautiful women, then SAVE UP and get this guide. You won’t regret it.

Dean

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Aug 4, 2008

The Body Signals of Attraction

The Body Signals of Attraction. I probably don't need to give you a list of the attraction signals that you find in relationship books. The reasonis that if a woman is sticking around talking to you and being pleasant, obviously she doesn't dislike you! 
 

But it's always possible that she likes you only as a friend (though unlikely as long as you keep pushing the interaction forward), so my advice is to learn and memorize the following list that I've come up with, and then try to forget it.

This is because you'll paralyze yourself during conversations if you start analyzing small details such as how forcefully she twirls her hair around her fingers.

Once you get experience with women, you'll recognize attraction signals instinctively. The following list of 10 attraction body language signals is in no particular order...

1. She feels nervous around you. Look for signs of nervousness such as her muscles twitching.
2. She teases you playfully.
3. She makes an effort to tell you how much she loves the same things you like.
4. When her legs are crossed, look at the foot of her top leg. If it is pointed toward you, it is a sign you've got her full attention.
5. She makes an effort to keep the conversation going when it lulls. (Every once in awhile you can even test her attraction by purposely allowing the conversation to pause on your end. Then see if she restarts the conversation.)
6. She compliments you on just about anything.
7. She touches her face. When a person touches his or her face, it's a sign that they're thinking about something. So in order to be sure that she's thinking good thoughts, look for this signal to be combined with others from this list.
8. She gazes into your eyes and holds her gaze.
9. When her legs are crossed, look at the foot of her top leg. If it is pointed toward you, it is a sign you've got her full attention.
 10. She mirrors you. (Being passive by nature, women will follow the lead of a man they feel attracted to.) Watch to see whether she...
  • Adjusts the volume of her voice to match yours.
  • Adjusts the rate of her voice to match yours.
  • Laughs when you laugh.
  • Has a similar posture to yours.
  • Matches the pace of your breathing.

Aug 3, 2008

Attract Women And Seduce Them

Hi Guys!

I’ve just recently stumbled across a pretty special site that I thought a lot of you guys would be really interested in. It’s an attraction, seduction and dating guide – I know, I know, I initially thought what you’re probably thinking: we’ve heard it all before right? Well, not exactly.

It’s called GuyGetsGirl and, uniquely, is written by a WOMAN called Tiffany Taylor. I think that right there is the reason it’s such a good book (3 volumes, from beginners, to intermediate to advanced). This woman, unlike most, actually knows all of the dirty tricks girls play on guys and isn’t afraid to spill the beans to us men. She goes through it step by step – how to prepare yourself, how and where to find women, the best ways to approach them and get talking…the whole nine yards. Oh, I almost forgot the most important part: She describes specific ways to ‘close’ on a girl. That means either get her number, get her to ask for YOUR number, how to kiss a girl and meet up with her the next day and a whole lot more.

I’d like to tell you more about the tactics and techniques that are in this guide, but should probably mention some other details instead.

The guide is available here and is instantly downloadable once you’ve got access. I personally couldn’t wait to start reading and using the material so was happy to find each volume of the guide available separately for download.

All in all, highly recommended reading for all guys that, like me, were fed up with the dating scene and just wanted to know the good stuff – how to attract and seduce hot girls!