Aug 4, 2008

The Body Signals of Attraction

The Body Signals of Attraction. I probably don't need to give you a list of the attraction signals that you find in relationship books. The reasonis that if a woman is sticking around talking to you and being pleasant, obviously she doesn't dislike you! 
 

But it's always possible that she likes you only as a friend (though unlikely as long as you keep pushing the interaction forward), so my advice is to learn and memorize the following list that I've come up with, and then try to forget it.

This is because you'll paralyze yourself during conversations if you start analyzing small details such as how forcefully she twirls her hair around her fingers.

Once you get experience with women, you'll recognize attraction signals instinctively. The following list of 10 attraction body language signals is in no particular order...

1. She feels nervous around you. Look for signs of nervousness such as her muscles twitching.
2. She teases you playfully.
3. She makes an effort to tell you how much she loves the same things you like.
4. When her legs are crossed, look at the foot of her top leg. If it is pointed toward you, it is a sign you've got her full attention.
5. She makes an effort to keep the conversation going when it lulls. (Every once in awhile you can even test her attraction by purposely allowing the conversation to pause on your end. Then see if she restarts the conversation.)
6. She compliments you on just about anything.
7. She touches her face. When a person touches his or her face, it's a sign that they're thinking about something. So in order to be sure that she's thinking good thoughts, look for this signal to be combined with others from this list.
8. She gazes into your eyes and holds her gaze.
9. When her legs are crossed, look at the foot of her top leg. If it is pointed toward you, it is a sign you've got her full attention.
 10. She mirrors you. (Being passive by nature, women will follow the lead of a man they feel attracted to.) Watch to see whether she...
  • Adjusts the volume of her voice to match yours.
  • Adjusts the rate of her voice to match yours.
  • Laughs when you laugh.
  • Has a similar posture to yours.
  • Matches the pace of your breathing.

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